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I do not disagree with anything you say, and yet, the thinking of the fathers was culturally removed from my own and that is not all a matter of correct theology.
I would want my counselor to know that I respect the authority of God and His Word more than human reasoning including my own, but that I need to be shown the error of my own thinking without someone trying to show that by discounting the authority of Scripture.
There is also a difference between genuine love and outward obedience.
I think of the questions Jesus asked or provoked when people approached him:
Wish i could heal everyone that is going through this because I would.
Being in Gothardism for over 15 years resulted in traumatization that affected each member of our family.
Thank you Eleanor!
It has also happened the other way around, that I got convicted to "eat what is set before me" and be willing to accept the allergic reaction for the sake of the feelings of the brothers and sisters I am with.
The most helpful part of counseling to me was finding out that I am not crazy.
Dr I have a exwife that is a diagonosed OCD she did it to me to the point of divorce.