Remember, attraction comes first and everything else follows that.
When you make her feel attracted in many different ways at once, she naturally feels sexually attracted to you and will experience a strong desire to have sex with you.
There are many things in your comment that suggest this is a problem for you.
Putting her in that position makes her feel like less of a woman around you.
As women, we don't experience the physiological drive for sex in this same way.
A man can experience sexual arousal apart from any emotional attachment.
If your partner is over the age of consent, or worse still a legal adult, he could be looking at some very serious criminal charges.
She called me and wanted to have dinner with me late night.